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Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Emotional Atyachhar - Is it right or wrong

Emotional Atyachhar the new show on UTV- is getting popular day by day, everyday. It is worth taking 10 minutes to sit and just think-Is this the correct way of finding out whether a partner is honest or dishonest? A penny for your thoughts...........
Angad, the host of the show says- Most of the people who come on the show are okay with going on camera. They are poor people, people from middle-class families, who can’t afford to hire detectives or investigators. This is free for them. Somewhere down the line, I identify with them and understand what they are going through. We don’t purposely intrude in people’s private lives or moments, they come to us with their problems. If they are okay, I don’t see why anyone else should have an issue with that.”
Emotional Atyachar deals with real life couples and how we can solve their problems. See where relationship is headed and whether they are getting fooled or not.

BUT IS THIS WHAT THEY ARE DOING?

What is the difference-Between what Emotional Atyachhar is doing and what Private investigators do?

Private Investigators investigate the past and the current. They do not lure. Emotional Atyachhar lures a person to do wrong and then call them cheats. They find out whether given the opportunity a person will cheat or not.
Don't you think this would not only depend on the nature of the person but also his/her present emotional status.

Let's start hiring employees in this manner. Lure them to rob crores of rupees and if they don't then give them the appointment letter. Does this make sense? What are procedures and policies for? Why do we need to look after our employees?

Let me find out of my 17 year old son will take care of me in the old age? Let me lure him into a situation to find this out. How will I analyse this- He may behave differently in my old age.

Emotional Atyachhar itself is Emotional Atyachhar.............. How can it be compared to investigators? We don't lure people to cheat. We find out if a person is cheating and that is the difference.

So Wake up - STOP YOUR OWN EMOTIONAL ATYACHHAR AND LIVE LIFE.

"A PARTNER CAN IMMEDIATELY KNOW IF HIS/HER PARTNER IS CHEATING JUST BY KEEPING YOUR EYES, EARS AND MIND OPEN THAT'S IT.- YOU DONT NEED EMOTIONAL ATYACHHAR TO LURE HIM/HER."